Did you just say “I want to fall in love?“
Many people say these words, day after day. But the first question here should NOT be “do I want to fall in love” but rather “am I ready to fall in love”? Are you ready to do what it takes to accept love from another, or to give unconditional love in return?
There are many things to take into consideration you know… Saying the words, “I want to fall in love” does not drop a soul mate in your lap.
Okay, then let’s get started.
I Want to Fall In Love: Love Yourself…
You absolutely have to love yourself before you walk out your door and begin hunting for the man of dreams
This is the first step in finding the man you want to fall in love with.
It is not meant for him to supply all of your happiness. Take time to discover who you are; take time to stand on your own two feet and know that you are capable of being happy when you are alone. Your vibe of self-acceptance will make him love you even more.
Be an independent woman with self-confidence that blows the top off your roof.
If you are needy, one of two things will happen. Men will run like hell, or they will take advantage of you.
Either way, you are screwed and true love will evade you.
So, do you want to take my advice now huntress?
Believe me, your prey will still be there for you to stalk.
Next time you catch yourself saying “I want to fall in love” remember to love yourself first.
I Want to Fall In Love: Qualities Vs. Features
When you say,”I want to fall in love,” what are you actually looking for?
Superficial “features” like…
- “good in bed”
- “great physique”
- you can trust?
- with common interests?
- who loves you even if you walk around in sweats and your hair tousled?
- to support you in your goals?
- who will be there for you through the challenging times?
These are the differences between love and lust.
These are what you must consider when you say “I want to fall in love.”
Think of it this way…
Most “features” can come and go … but most “qualities” only improve and deepen with time.
Your hot hunky sex god may well be pudgy, out of shape and balding 10 years from now… and if he is a jerk and self centered now… chances are he will be in 10 years time as well.
Option B… choose a man who treats you with the love, care and respect you long for deep down… perhaps the man possessing these qualities is slightly shorter than you with a receding hairline… but it’s amazing what a real emotional connection can do for a relationship. The sex is probably better too. Trust me on this girlie
I Want to Fall In Love: Try the Shoes On First
I have a cardinal rule that I am passing on to you my dear. You never buy a pair of shoes until you try them on.
How silly would you be to spend $50 on a pair of shoes if you are not sure they are going to fit?
The same is true for men. I understand when you say I want to fall in love, but try a few men on first. Nothing is lost by this, right? Some of you save sex for marriage so this isn’t just about sexual compatibility. Before you try to get him to commit see how he treats you in various “life” situations…
- Does he value you for “you” and respect your opinion?
- Does he stop opening doors after only a few dates?
- Do you have to always do what he wants?
- How does he treat you after a disagreement?
- Can he apologize if he is wrong?
- Will he help you weed your garden?
If he wants to rush right out the door, he is definitely not the one. If he sticks around for for awhile, but then leaves without calling, he’s the wrong size. Now, if he remembers your favorite ice cream, mentions dinner later and kisses you goodbye, you might just have found the right size and style.
I Want to Fall In Love: Patience My Dear
I completely understand the loneliness you feel; not having the right partner, or worse yet, no partner at all, plain ol’ sucks.
“I want to fall in love…SIGH!!!”
You must remember, rushing into a relationship with the hopes of falling in love can cause more harm than good. Have patience, my friend.
While telling yourself ”I want to fall in love”.. remember… the right man will come to you, and your life will change forever.
Hearing you say “I want to fall in love,” makes me think of a beautiful set of lyrics by the band, Eden’s Crush. “I wanna feel like an angel, I want to fly on a beam of moonlight, I wanna see Heaven from the inside, I wanna be in love this way.” This is the perfect way to sum this up…all of this is possible for you. You can fall in love.
To further answer the “I want to fall in love” dilemma click on the STOP LIGHT picture on the left and watch the video… get ready to take notes… there is some great content.
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